I have been inquisitive for quite some time now, to reveal the truth, of how woman and men feel about relationships.What are the physical and emotional characteristics that both men and woman look for when searching for the perfect mate. Are we all looking for the same qualities when it comes to our Romeo or Juliet, or does our personal taste differ? Many have written books and directed movies to test this thesis, but many times each conclusion has been concluded differently. One must ask, are we all the same, or are we different in our search. Many have even stated that both sexes derive from other planets, stating that the emotional connection and thought process are completely different. I believe for one to understand the other party, they must understand what makes them the person they are, and what qualities complement them. In the sense, of what makes the perfect significant other. I will test the theory by asking both parties what they look for in their ideal mate, and from there, draw my conclusion, of what makes men and woman both tick and their outlooks on relationships. I will observe and interview various parties from all backgrounds and walks of life, and see if they look for the same commonality in their partner. I will gather my observations and conclude my observation in the second part of my discussion. I will keep you posted.
08 October, 2009
Relationships Part 1
I have been inquisitive for quite some time now, to reveal the truth, of how woman and men feel about relationships.What are the physical and emotional characteristics that both men and woman look for when searching for the perfect mate. Are we all looking for the same qualities when it comes to our Romeo or Juliet, or does our personal taste differ? Many have written books and directed movies to test this thesis, but many times each conclusion has been concluded differently. One must ask, are we all the same, or are we different in our search. Many have even stated that both sexes derive from other planets, stating that the emotional connection and thought process are completely different. I believe for one to understand the other party, they must understand what makes them the person they are, and what qualities complement them. In the sense, of what makes the perfect significant other. I will test the theory by asking both parties what they look for in their ideal mate, and from there, draw my conclusion, of what makes men and woman both tick and their outlooks on relationships. I will observe and interview various parties from all backgrounds and walks of life, and see if they look for the same commonality in their partner. I will gather my observations and conclude my observation in the second part of my discussion. I will keep you posted.
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For me the ideal mate is a man who challenges me to be the best person I can. A man that helps me discover my passion and live my life according to my life's purpose. Very often that happens because we do think differently. Sometimes I am unaware I even have an opinion on certain ideas-then I hear a statement that doesn't sit well with me, that differs from what I believe. It is at that moment that I realize I have just discovered a another passion in myself, what a gift. I recognize my mate and thank him for the gift of letting me realize what is important to me. Then I can share with him how I truly feel and what matters for me. When we can each do this for each other it allows us to really get to know each other at a very deep level and through our self discovery we learn and grow from each other.
This is what allows us both to continue to grow as individuals and together as a couple.
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